I’ve been asking some of the kids
at school what they are “giving up” for Lent and I’m hearing things like, “I’m
giving up chocolate” or “I’m giving up soda.” Admittedly, when I think of Lent,
I think of my favorite Roadrunner and Wiley Coyote cartoon where Wiley finds
himself suspended in mid-air between two giant cliffs, holding a sign with one
word on it: “Yipe!”
Some love
this upcoming season. But I will admit: I’m not a big fan. I don’t like to admit
that I’ve grown too attached to things or that I’ve let the garden of my life
become overgrown with weeds and the vines. But if I’ve had a good Lent—a Lent
where I’ve really worked in the garden and been honest with God and myself—I
find that I’m a more joyful, peaceful, and holier person at the end. The best
Easters that I’ve ever had are those that have come after a grueling Lent. A
Lent on the Cross.
Today, our
Gospel exhorts us to cast out into the deep. Not the shallow, but the deep.
What does this mean for our Lenten observance? It means go big or go home. Giving
up chocolates and soda is fine—for 3rd graders. Cast out into the
deep. Love is not found in the shallow.
As a
priest, I hear many ideas about what people do. Let me share a few. They fall
under three categories.
The first
is fasting.
On one level, we are obliged to fast twice during Lent.
Everyone 18-59 must fast this Wednesday—Ash Wednesday—and on Good Friday. That
means one regular meal, two small, and only liquids in between. That is
required for everyone 18-59. We are also obliged
to abstain from meat on Fridays during Lent. Why fish, then? Having followed
Jesus’ command to “Go, sell all you have and give to the poor, and come, follow
me,” the Church was poor and so they ate the food of the poor: fish: fish which
could be caught in any lake, river, or sea. This, then reminds us to live
simply. And it is done on Friday to remind us of the day of Jesus’ ultimate
sacrifice.
That is what is required of us.
Now, to make our Lent fruitful: we need to double-down on our rooting out of
some of the evil in our lives and some things to which we are attached. I’m
going to give you a list.
Choose one:
Fast from the bar, fast from
gossip, fast from anger. Fast from cursing or lying or judging or comparing
yourself with others or from tearing yourself down. Fast from being picky. Fast
from being negative or sarcastic or immodest. Fast from insults. Let your fast
be awesome: so… fast from hitting the snooze button. Fast from facebook, from twitter,
from texting, youtube, television, and staying up late. Give yourself a
bedtime. Fast from junk food, from fast food, and salting your food. Have
dinner with your family. Fast from video games or from the ipod or the
i-whatever and from secular music and from the radio when you drive. Listen to
some sacred music. Listen to God in the silence. Fast from complaining. Fast
from having your way. Fast from checking your phone when you are with people.
Fast from make-up. Or from a hot shower. And if you can’t live without it,
maybe this is the year that you live without it.
Cast out
into the deep. Not the shallow.
So take a
moment right now, cast your net into this list, and pick one.
…. I’m
serious. Pick one. Make a commitment.
The second
category is prayer.
As we give up something, something
good and holy must replace it. If we give up television or facebook, we must
replace it with something good, else we will replace it with youtube.
So, here
are some good things to fill you:
Attend Holy
Mass during the week in addition to Sunday. We will have Holy Mass on Tuesday
nights and Wednesdays at noon all throughout Lent. Read a chapter of the
Gospels each day. Pick up a book on a saint and read it. Go to the Adoration
chapel before you go home each day. Join Monsignor and me every morning at 7:30
for morning prayer. Go to the Stations of the Cross—every Friday at 2:30pm or
7pm. Get up early and pray each morning. When you go to bed, make a list of 5
things for which you are thankful. Sing. Sing at Mass—even if you think you
stink at it. Even if you know you stink at it, sing. Open the green hymnal and
sing. Sing some more. Follow along with the Eucharistic prayers at Mass. Attend
the adult formation nights Monsignor and I will be doing. Go to confession—go more
than once. Pray the rosary every day. Go to the cathedral or the botanical
gardens or the art museum or the symphony and see or hear something beautiful.
Stay longer after Holy Mass. Exercise. Pray with your spouse before bed. Hug
your kids. Read them a bible story when you tuck them in. Read your 24-year-old
a bible story before you tuck him in.
Cast out
into the deep!—not the shallow.
Take a
moment right now and pick one. Cast into the deep.
Third
category: Almsgiving.
This isn’t just giving money to the
poor. This is figuring out how you need to love the people around you and then
to do it. If you are fasting from TV, spend that time with family. If you are
fasting from shopping or from eating out, give that money to a good charity. If
you are fasting from being-and-looking busy, then slow down and maybe make a
real dinner for the family. Maybe you need to call your mom. Other ideas: Write
a love-letter to your spouse. Write your grandma a letter. Take someone out to
lunch each week—a neighbor you kind of ignore, a lonely co-worker, one of your
children. Volunteer. Tithe. And if you already tithe, step up your tithing from
10%-15%. Do the dishes when it’s not your turn. Hold doors open for someone
every day. Buy your wife flowers each week. Try to have another child. Write
kind notes and hand them to random strangers you see. Compliment your spouse
each morning. Compliment a stranger. Tell someone about Jesus.
Cast out
into the deep!
I’ve given
you over 50 ideas. Now: a few tips to help you be successful:
1) If you
fall, get back on that horse, cowboy. Lent can be easy and exciting at first.
But Lent is Lent when you’ve been carrying the cross for 20 days. No pain, no
gain.
2) Don’t do
a penance that will be a penance for others. If you know you will snap at those
you love if you don’t have your coffee because you’re fasting from coffee, then
maybe you shouldn’t be fasting from coffee this year.
3) Don’t
wait until the last minute to “do Lent.” Start now, start strong, be strong,
finish strong. Easter will then be awesome strong.
4) Remember:
You’re not doing this alone and you don’t have to go it alone. If you want to
go to daily Mass but know you’ll need someone to help you, invite someone
along. Invite, invite, invite.
Ok, so that’s
the end of my homily. There is one more part, but it is more of an announcement…
During this Lent we will all have
an opportunity to grow because there will be a few new additions to Mass
beginning in Lent.
First:
there will be a different wine starting in Lent. It will be white instead of
red. The reason for this is twofold: one, white is much, much easier to clean
from our cloth purificators than the red. Two, this wine is easier on the
stomach—which helps us priests since we are consuming it every day.
Second: in the past, holy Mass during
Lent would start in silence. We all know of the noble simplicity that the
season of Lent demands for the Mass.
This year, we will continue the noble simplicity of Mass during Lent, being
sure to follow what the Church asks us to do in that regard. Therefore, Holy
Mass will begin with the text that is specific to each Mass. This text—known as the entrance
antiphon or introit—will be sung by all in lieu of mere silence. The music for
the rest of Mass will remain as it is every Lent: simple and supportive of the
Lenten observance, inviting us into silence so that we might hear God.
Third: you will notice that a
couple of the Mass parts will be sung in Latin. Why? First, because this is the
universal language of the Church. We don’t just belong to the family which is
St. Joseph Imperial, we belong to the family which is the Catholic Church.
Catholic meaning universal. And our family’s universal language is Latin. And
you’ll know what we are saying, because you have been saying the English all
your life.
A second
reason: the difference in praying in this language alerts us to a reality which
is greater than ourselves and our every-day language. Latin elevates the mind,
forcing it to fast from the very
American notion that we have to know and see everything. No, some things are
mysterious, out-of-the-ordinary, beyond perception and comprehension—especially
the Holy Mass. Lent is the perfect season to re-introduce ourselves to this
sacred reality. This is not a return to the past, but a bringing forth of what
the Second Vatican Council wanted.
I will be
talking more about that on my Wednesday lecture on February 20th
when I discuss the liturgy and the Second Vatican Council. I hope you can
attend.
Cast out
into the deep this Lent. Be with Jesus as He is on the Cross. Love is found
there—not in the shallow. In the deep. You have three days!
amazing homily!!! I will definitely use this advice for lent this year :)
ReplyDeleteI spoke to you about your homily after Mass this past Saturday. Thank you for making it available on your blog.
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