I’ve been on many flights and I’ve done the whole thing
of checking the bag at the ticket counter. I say goodbye to my bag and then
pray: Lord, please bring it back to me at my destination. And I get to my
destination and head to baggage claim. And you know how it goes: there is the
carousel and everyone is waiting; and the buzzer goes off and an alarm light
and the bags start coming down the chute. People see their bags and it doesn’t
matter whether the bags are full of clean clothes or dirty clothes: they run to
their bags and are happy that their bags aren’t lost. Because that would be the worst,
right?—when all the bags are claimed and everyone has left the carousel and
your bag never showed up. It’s lost.
But that’s not actually the worst. I mean, you could get
a call—and will likely get a call—a day later saying that the airline found
your bag. It was lost in Sheboygan or something but now it’s found. So, that’s
not the worst.
The worst is when days pass, weeks pass—and you realize
that you are never getting your bag back. You have to give it up forever and
give up hope of ever getting it back. Losing
luggage is not the worst—having to
abandon it is. --
Abandonment.
We swim in that word these days, we feel it, even if we
don’t know it by its name. Abandonment: a sense of hopelessness, connected to
giving up, and being rejected. I’m not talking about luggage anymore. I’m
talking about you and me. We can so easily feel abandoned and operate from that.
And maybe for good reason: maybe one of our parents left the family when we were
younger; or maybe you have felt abandoned by your spouse who chooses the drink
or maybe your spouse left you; maybe you feel abandoned by your kids—rejected;
abandoned. And maybe we felt it this past year; maybe we felt abandoned by our
priests and bishops.
We know it’s the worst because it pulls on our heart
strings when we see others abandoned, like in the pictures coming from Afghanistan. And our family and friends who have served
over there—many of them and their families have been forgotten in this news
cycle. Yes, abandonment is the worst. –
Which is why I was totally devastated by Jesus’ question
today. He asks: “Do you also want to leave?”
(He had just taught on the Eucharist and its says because of this, many of his disciples left
Him and returned to their former way of life. That is, many of Jesus’
disciples abandoned Him. And Jesus is God and He is strong and you’d think it
wouldn’t matter to Him, really. But then He turns to the remaining Twelve, the
Apostles, and asks Do you also want to
abandon me as well?)
And that’s devastating to me because it means that Jesus cares if He is abandoned. God cares if
we leave Him. –
And how many people have left Him today! And not only
about the Eucharist, but that second reading! You heard the line: wives, be subordinate to your husbands.
How many today echo the crowds as they say, This
saying is hard. -- wives, be subordinate to your husbands?! -- Who can bear it? And they grumbled against Him.
Each year, there is someone who elbows their spouse during that second reading.
But what was the first line of that passage? Do you
remember the first line? – Look, brothers and sisters, you need to know the
first line. Everyone knows the second
line about the wives. But you must
know the first line. If you don’t get the first line, you will mess it all up.
The first line says:
Be subordinate to
ONE ANOTHER out of reverence for Christ.
In other words, there is no power-play here; it isn’t as
though men are way up here and women are way down here. No. We are equals in
dignity and we are both called to lay
down our lives. Hence Jesus says: Husbands,
love your wives AS CHRIST loved the Church. How did Jesus do that? By dying
for her. He washed her feet. Spouses, have you washed each other’s feet? Do you
not know that you are both to be subordinate
to one another out of reverence for Christ?
And how many people have left Jesus and His Church
because they didn’t understand that. They gave up. They lost hope because they didn't hear the first line. They only focused on the second. And they
abandoned Him. And Jesus cares about that. –
But, there’s more. That question that Jesus asks Peter
and the Apostles (do you also want to go),
none of us understands the gravity of that question. I need to walk you though
this.
Because, what if Peter and the Apostles say “yeah, we’re
out”?
After all, Jesus had been with them for almost two years
at this point. He had called them, claimed
them as His own; He has taught them the parables and the mysteries behind the
parables; He has given them authority over spirits and revealed His glory at
the Transfiguration. If the Apostles leave now, there is no time to form a new
batch. They are it. All of Jesus’ eggs are in one basket.
Because, if they go, there will be no Apostles at the Last
Supper, no ordination of priests there. And at the Resurrection, sure, you’ll
still have Mary Magdalene there and she’ll see the Resurrection—but who will
believe her? After all, during that era in history there was an actual patriarchal system—nobody
would have believed a former prostitute who was raving about a man she loved as
being raised from the dead. Mary Magdalene needed the Apostles because they confirmed what would have otherwise been dismissed.
That is all to say: without the Apostles, we may have experienced graces
of salvation because of the Cross, but we would be on soft ground when it came
to the Resurrection; and, more, we would not have the grace of union that comes
from the Eucharist—because we wouldn’t
have the priests to do it.
That’s the gravity of this question. If the Apostles say
no, it’s over. No Eucharist—which is
precisely what Jesus had just taught on.
And if we think Jesus wouldn’t do this, remember: He did
the very same thing when He sent Gabriel the Archangel to Mary and asked Mary
if she would say yes to the Father’s plan. If Mary says no, it’s over. –
So let's boil all of this down to a single point. And that point is: what is Jesus really asking Peter in this moment? Jesus is asking: Do you claim me as
your Savior and Messiah? Do you claim me or abandonment. Because to claim is the opposite of to abandon.
And what does Peter do? He says: Master, we’ve left everything. Where else would we go?
Peter claims Him. And I love the honesty, too. Peter is honest that is claiming is weak. It is weak claim because Peter says, Yeah, you’re
my Messiah, but it’s really because I have nothing else.
And that’s true. Peter has nothing else. And you would
think that Jesus would be upset by such a weak claim. But it is enough for Him.
And He blesses Peter and the Apostles.
And notice what Peter says next. He says, We are convinced that you have the words of
everlasting life.
In other words, Peter is admitting, when it comes to this
hard teaching on the Eucharist and, really, on Jesus as the Messiah-- Peter is freely admitting: Lord, I
don’t know how you are going to do it. I don’t know how you are going to turn
bread and wine into your flesh and blood. And I don’t know how we are going to
eat that. And, more, how eating that would bring us to eternal life in the
Father. But, Jesus, I saw you walk on water last night. And multiply loaves and
fishes the evening prior. I believe that you can do this…
That's beautiful to me. --
And it's beautiful, too, because Jesus is also claiming Peter. They stay together. They are in this together. In good times and in bad, in sickness and in health.
That second reading comes full circle: I speak of a
great mystery; I speak in reference to Christ [the husband] and the Church [His
bride].
And the two become one flesh.
How does Jesus become one flesh with us? In the Eucharist, His body and blood enters our body and blood. And the two become one flesh.
See? Jesus is present here. He has not abandoned us! And the fact that Jesus is present even now in this tabernacle—it is proof that Jesus has not abandoned us. It is proof
that when Peter claimed Jesus, Jesus blessed that and claimed him, too.
So, you are not abandoned, my friends! You have been claimed!
Jesus invites you to claim Him, now, too. Claim Him
as your Savior! Say to Him, Lord, I don’t
know how you are going to solve the pandemic; I don’t know how you are going to
care for my checkbook or my marriage or my family – and the million other
worries that I have in this life. But, Jesus, Master, you are my Messiah. And I believe that you
can do it.
This is a moment of decision. And don’t think for a
second that it isn’t important. Peter’s moment was crucial! Mary’s moment was
paramount! Your moment—generations in your family are affected by this decision
to abandon or to claim.
And if not for them, then for you. Because when we live
from a place of abandonment, we totally get stressed out and burned out. And we
get that way because we’re carrying it all ourselves, we are trying to do
everything ourselves. And we try to do that because we feel abandoned and we’re
operating from that. And then we become irritable—and who wants to be around
that?
But if we claim Jesus and let Him claim us—if we really
are convinced that He is my Savior and yours—then we can give Him control. We
can say, Lord, I know you can do it. I
believe you will do it. You will help me in a radical and beautiful way. Because
you are my Messiah.
And when we operate from that position, we are much more
at peace—because it’s no longer entirely on our shoulders. HE is helping us carry this Cross. And from that comes a greater
patience, and more energy, and more generosity. And a kindness that people like
to be around.
So claim Him, brothers and sisters.
For He has not abandoned you. You have been claimed!