A
few days ago, we had the "Trunk or Treat" and a few kids
dressed up as saints. There were also two boys who dressed up as...
me. One dressed in black clerics and walked with a bike. The other
one wore a kind of Mass vestment and toted a soccer ball. He wore a
name tag and it said: "Hello, I'm Father Gerber, future patron saint of
soccer players."
I'll
take that! Haha! They have so easily pegged me!
Today
is a joyful day, a day to celebrate the graces of God and the victory
of these men and women we call saints.
***
I've
read a lot about them and, in all of the books I've read, I've
noticed that there is something that unites them, a common theme
among them all. And that is, for each and every last one of them, all
they had to do to become a saint was to respond to the good that God
was calling them to do. Just respond to the good.
That's
it.
No
matter how far off the reservation in sin they had been, whether it
was a life of it as in the case of the good thief, or Mary Magdalene,
or Augustine-- the one thing that turned everything around and helped
them to grow was that response to God's invitation to do good. And
yeah, it wasn't easy: it started with repentance, with saying sorry.
It meant suffering: Monica cried a lot for her family who had fallen
away. But each day in them there was a call to do good. And what made
them all saints was that they kept on responding to it-- even after a
fall, they kept getting up. One stair, on step at a time, all the way
to heaven.
***
Here's where I've also realized something about saints-- something that I've read from the book of everyday experience: no matter who you are, it's very easy to think that the saints are distant, that they aren't real. When I talk about the saints at the school, for example, the
kids think they aren't real. I mean, they know they are real-- but not REALLY real... I mean, we're talking about people from the Middle Ages ... across the Ocean...
a long time ago, in a land far away-- it's so easy for the kids (and for all of us) to think it's make
believe.
Or
that the saints are museum pieces, fuzzy art on holy cards, caricatures of grace that no "normal"
human being can ever actually attain. Anomalies...
They
don't see that right here, people are growing in holiness and
becoming saints. I mean, what would we expect a saint to look like? I
think the children would be surprised that there are people in these
pews who are close to sainthood-- that there are even some children
in our school who are walking in this grace. The saints aren't
distant at all. They were just like you, listening to sermons just
like this, breathing the same air you breathe, living and working in
the same world in which we live and work.
***
If
I may, let me give you an example. Her name is Blessed Chiara Luce
Badano.
Chiara
was a beautiful and joyful Italian woman who lived in our own times--
she was a teenager in the 1980s. And for those of you who didn't live
in the 1980s, you totally missed out.
Chiara
was beautiful, but she wasn't a saint from birth-- none of us are!
She was strong-willed and argued a bit with her parents. On one
occasion, she stole from her neighbor's apple tree. Her parents
caught her and taught her that stealing was bad.
(Notice,
this saint's path to holiness began with her parents teaching her the difference between right and wrong).
Chiara
remembered this lesson and a change began in her: if stealing was
wrong, then giving is right: I must give.
So,
when Chiara would go to school, her mom would pack her a snack--
haha, just like parents do today! Chiara would take her snack to
school and she would see someone without a lunch. Something in Chiara
would well up in her heart, something that told her what was good:
and Chiara responded by giving the poor student her own snack.
Of
course, teachers noticed this and that Chiara wasn't eating lunch, so
they told Mrs. Badano-- just like today: in parent-teacher
conferences! Mrs. Badano told Chiara that it was nice of her to
share; so Mrs. Badano (also a saint in the making) started to pack
Chiara two snacks and told her: "Ok, Chiara, this one is for the
poor, this one is for you." Chiara went to school with two
snacks, but there was a pull in her heart-- so Chiara gave them both
away!
See?
This is all it takes.
***
Now,
lest we think that Chiara was some porcelain doll at age 9, let me be
clear that she was just like any girl: she loved pop music and
singing and dancing. She lived in the 1980s, so she likely knew
Michael Jackson's "Thriller" and The Bangles' "Walk
Like An Egyptian." Chiara loved tennis and likely knew Steffi
Graf and Pete Sampras. Chiara loved to hike and to swim, but she
wasn't a great student-- even failing freshman year of high school.
(Don't
do that, by the way).
So,
needless to say, she was very much like a teenage girl.
When
she was 16, she went on a retreat (as many high school girls do) and
was drawn to an image-- an image of Jesus Foresaken. Chiara was moved
that Jesus was being forgotten.
(So,
you see-- there's that movement again... Something is welling up in
her...)
She
responds to that and promises Jesus that if others forget Him, she
will remember Him. And so she makes that resolution at that retreat:
Jesus, I will remember you.
A
little thereafter, Chiara becomes sick. It's bone cancer. And it's
not looking good. So she prays: "Ok, Jesus, if you want it, I
want it too." Small prayer-- but that's the stuff of saints.
Chiara
enters the hospital and there meets some patients who are depressed.
(It's easy to become depressed or to throw pity parties when we are
sick). Chiara decides that she is instead going to remember Jesus and
bring joy. So she goes on walks with other patients. With bone
cancer, these walks would be very painful-- but it would be all for
them and for Jesus. Chiara's parents often encouraged her to rest,
but she would simply reply, "I'll be able to sleep later on."
When
her chemotherapy started to cause her beautiful hair to fall out,
with each strand of hair Chiara would say, "For you, Jesus."
Later,
when it was revealed that she wouldn't recover, she said "If I
had to choose between walking again and going to heaven, I wouldn't
hesitate, I would choose heaven." #Priorities.
***
Knowing
that she was going to die, Chiara started making preparations-- for
others. What I mean by that is, she started to prepare her parents
for life after her death. By that I mean-- her parents refused to
leave her bedside, so she bought them dinner reservations to a
restaurant for St. Valentine's Day-- and she ordered them not to
return until after midnight.
She
gave all of her savings to a friend who was doing mission work in
Africa.
After
that, she said: "At this point, I have nothing left, but I still
have my heart and with that I can always love."
...
I still have my heart and with that I can always love!
With
her friends gathered, she said to them and to all young people: "I
can't run anymore, but how I would like to pass on to you the torch,
like the Olympics! ... You have only one life and it's worthwhile to
spend it well."
Spend
it on love!
Finally,
when the time was near for her passing, Chiara made a request: she
wanted to be buried in a white dress, kind of like a wedding. She
wanted to wear a white dress for when she met Jesus-- because she
wasn't able to get married in this life, and Jesus was her forever
love.
***
That's
it.
Chiara's
feast day was just a few days ago: October 29th.
By
the end of her life, she is doing incredible things. But notice how
it started: responding to the good: to avoid stealing, to start
giving... These are steps to heaven .... small steps to heaven... to start giving
sacrificially ... to remember Jesus ... to remember Jesus when in
pain ... to see others in pain and see Jesus.... each step greater than the next... all the way to heaven.
***
We
ask for the Saints' help. They have given us great example and great
hope-- let us ask them to help us.
And
someday, if we respond to this grace, we will be able to meet them.
You will be able to talk with Chiara and all your favorite saints.
And
you will do something amazing from heaven: in the words of St. Thesese, you will even spend your heaven doing good on earth. From heaven, you will be able to help your children and your grandchildren and
great-grandchildren who, we pray, after you are still in these pews. And maybe they will have known you
to be a saint-- or maybe they never saw that you were-- but whether they saw it or not, there are future saints who are sitting here right now in these pews.
Shoot, you're probably sitting in a pew where, years before, another saint was sitting. Something to think about. Because if they are in heaven, maybe a grandma or great-grandpa-- they are likely praying for you right now. We can ask Chiara and all the saints to pray for us now. Blessed Chiara, pray for us! All you holy men and women, pray for us!
Shoot, you're probably sitting in a pew where, years before, another saint was sitting. Something to think about. Because if they are in heaven, maybe a grandma or great-grandpa-- they are likely praying for you right now. We can ask Chiara and all the saints to pray for us now. Blessed Chiara, pray for us! All you holy men and women, pray for us!
In
the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
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